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Still Gravity

Becoming the man

Self-improvement for men: purpose, body, money, friends and habits

Every technique works better when the man using it has a life worth sharing. The foundations that make attraction a byproduct instead of a project, and that pay off far beyond dating.

Guides for this topic are on the way.

Meanwhile, here’s where the book handles it, and the quick answers from the Situation Finder.

In the book

  • 2.1Confidence is a track record, not a feeling
  • 2.3Body language that says “relaxed, not needy”
  • 2.4Style: the 80/20 of looking good
  • 2.5Social proof: why she notices the guy everyone likes
  • 2.6How to be more fun (humor is a skill)
  • 12.1Purpose: put her in your life, not at the center of it
  • 12.2Your body: training, sleep and the testosterone myth
  • 12.3Money and ambition without the flex
  • 12.4Friendships: the brotherhood you need
  • 12.5Emotional mastery: name it, tame it, lead it
  • 12.6Dopamine discipline: porn, scrolling and swiping
  • 12.7Habits: the 66-day truth
  • 12.8Charisma beyond dating
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